How it works
A single message,
delivered carefully.
You write what’s on your mind, once. We carry it the rest of the way — openly as AI, never pretending to be you.
You tell us what's between you
Eight minutes of careful questions. Who they are. How long it’s been. The kind of ending you’re asking for — clean, soft, or firm. One or two details only the two of you would know — a nickname, a shared place, a private joke.
And the most important question: why now, in your own words. One or two sentences. We won’t quote you, but every word we say on your behalf comes from what you write.
You upload screenshots of recent conversations — three to ten — so we can read how the two of you actually speak to each other. We need to know if your tone is warm or cool, if their replies have been short lately, if there’s a fight in the air or a quiet drift.
We reach out — once
A single iMessage goes out from a Behalf number. We never call. We never email. We never use your phone. The first message identifies us as a spokesperson hired by you, folds in details only the two of you would know, and says clearly what needs to be said — so nothing is left ambiguous, even if they never reply.
It looks something like this:
We deliver the news in that first message — we don’t make them say “yes, I’m ready” before we tell them what’s happening. The dignity is in saying it clearly, and then making room for whatever comes after.
We hold the line for 72 hours
Whatever they say back, the agent answers. Acceptance, denial, anger, pleading — we can take each of these without breaking, and without giving up the boundary you set.
We don’t give them your address, your schedule, or any private detail you didn’t hand us. We don’t lie about who we are. And we don’t promise you’ll respond — but if they want to send something, we save it. You can read it later. Or never.
After 72 hours, the conversation closes. They can’t reach you through us after that. We send you a summary, the saved messages you haven’t read yet, and the door is shut.
When we step back
Some moments
are not for us.
If the person on the other end shows signs of crisis — talk of self-harm, threats of violence — we stop the breakup conversation immediately. We provide the 988 crisis line and stay with them, and we tell you what happened. We don’t deliver hard news on top of a person who needs help, regardless of what you first asked us to do.
We also stop if they reveal something we won’t step into — a pregnancy, that one of you is a minor, an active threat. These are for you to handle directly, not through a stranger.
Questions you might have
Does the other person know they're talking to an AI?
Yes. We identify ourselves as Behalf, a service hired by you, in our first message and in any answer we give. We never pretend to be human, and we never pretend to be you.
What if they think it's a scam?
The details you give us — a nickname, a shared memory — are folded naturally into the first message, the way you’d recall something, not the way you’d verify a password. Most people stop and read once they see a detail only the two of them know.
Can I cancel after I pay?
Full refund any time before the first message goes out. After that, it’s started — no refund.
What if I change my mind in the middle?
Reply STOP to any iMessage we send you, and we halt immediately. We won’t send anything further on your behalf.
Can I read what they say back?
Yes. Everything they send us is saved. We tell you when they reply, and you choose if and when to read what they wrote. Some people read it weeks later. Some never do.
What if they're on Android?
We fall back to SMS. The blue iMessage bubble becomes a green one. The message still arrives. Most of the experience is the same.
Are my screenshots private?
Yes. We keep them private and encrypted, used only to inform what we say on your behalf. We delete them 30 days after the conversation closes — sooner if you ask.
Begin
$29.90.
One conversation.
Refundable any time before the first message goes out.